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The client that
wants to be sold to
Kathryn Monkcom
Power dynamics in
agency/client relationships
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital
The client that wants to be sold to
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital
Kathryn Monkcom
HEAD OF INBOUND AT PULL THE PIN
ICF ACTP ACCREDITED COACH
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital
Storytime
Exhibit A: Make it pop
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital
Agency
"Can you be more specific
about what's missing from
this design?"
Client
"If I tell you what I want it to
look like, aren't I doing your
job for you?"
Exhibit B: The never-ending proposal
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital
Agency
"Let's chat about what
you're looking for, then we'll
put together a strategy"
Client
"Once we've seen your
strategy, we'll tell you if it's
what we're looking for"
Karpman's drama triangle
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital
@kathrynmonkcom
Persecutor Rescuer
Victim
Karpman's drama triangle
#DRINKDigital
@kathrynmonkcom
The rescuer
#DRINKDigital
"They don't understand, we'll
fix everything for them"
Transactional analysis
#DRINKDigital
Parent
Adult
Child
Client
Parent
Adult
Child
Agency
"We'll fix everything
for them
"
@kathrynmonkcom
Persecutor Rescuer
Victim
Karpman's drama triangle
Client
Agency
#DRINKDigital
@kathrynmonkcom
Persecutor Rescuer
Victim
Karpman's drama triangle
Client Agency
#DRINKDigital
@kathrynmonkcom
The persecutor
#DRINKDigital
"They're not doing it right,
if only they'd listen to us"
Transactional analysis
#DRINKDigital
Parent
Adult
Child
Client
Parent
Adult
Child
Agency
"They just need
to
do what we say"
@kathrynmonkcom
Persecutor Rescuer
Victim
Karpman's drama triangle
Client
Agency
#DRINKDigital
@kathrynmonkcom
The victim
#DRINKDigital
"We could be doing better
work, but they won't let us"
@kathrynmonkcom
Persecutor Rescuer
Victim
Karpman's drama triangle
Client
Agency
#DRINKDigital
@kathrynmonkcom
Challenger Coach
Survivor
Adult state
#DRINKDigital
Adult
@kathrynmonkcom
The survivor
#DRINKDigital
"What is within my control?"
@kathrynmonkcom
The coach
#DRINKDigital
"What would you like
to see happen?"
@kathrynmonkcom
The challenger
#DRINKDigital
"I'm keen to get this right. If
you swap out the image,
we can sign it off."
It's all about power
Transactional analysis
#DRINKDigital
Parent
Adult
Child
Client
Parent
Adult
Child
Agency
"I'm keen to get
this right"
"What would you
like to see happen?"
@kathrynmonkcom
Challenger Coach
Survivor
Karpman's drama triangle
#DRINKDigital
Adult
Client Agency
What will you need from us to make this a success?
Coaching questions
#DRINKDigital
By playing the rescuer we end up doing
work we don't believe in
Clients that are focused on detail are often
feeling powerless
To move to adult state, we need to act as
the coach
This can start as early as the discovery call,
and will actually win you more business
To recap...
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital
Thank you
@kathrynmonkcom
#DRINKDigital

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